
I am about to share something deeply personal with you my crafty friends. I am an Iraq War widow. My first husband, Sgt. Daniel Woodcock, was killed in Iraq March 11, 2007.
The reason I am sharing this with you is that the 3 year anniversary of his death is steadily approaching and I have been feeling this enormous sense that I need to do something to commemorate it. Then last month a good friend's husband was killed in Afghanistan and it became clear. I need to help comfort these women.
The reason this blog is called "I Make Stuff" is that making stuff is my reaction to the world around me. When my friends are sick, having a baby, or just having a hard time I Make Stuff. When I am feeling the grief particularly strongly, I Make Stuff. It makes me feel as if I have some control. This year instead of spending the day with my heart in the fetal position, I want to make stuff. Not only do I want to make stuff but I want to SEND stuff.

Topstitch this down (or just sew as close to the edge as you can). Now lay the composition book on top of it and figure out where you want the folds to go.
Press and pin it in place and topstitch it closed. The front should fold over about 2 inches and the back should fold over almost all the way to the spine.
Cut the ribbon so that when overlapped on the back it is directly in the middle of your cover. Heat seal the edges and pin in place. Make sure you don't pin through your back pocket! Sew a box and then zig zag in the middle (I would normally do that with matching thread but I used brown so you can see it better.)
I am starting what I'd like to call the Write It Out Project, handmade journals for grieving military widows. I read somewhere (and now I CANNOT find it!) that people who journal through times of grief are less likely to need depression medications as people who don't. I know that I found it extremely helpful.
So, to make a very long story short, I am posting this tutorial and asking my crafty friends a favor. Would you be willing to make one of these for a military widow? Composition notebooks only cost a dollar and I bet you have all of the other materials in your stash.
Write It Out Project Journal Tutorial

What you need:
Composition notebook
two coordinating fabrics
ribbon
button
craft paper and mod podge, if desired
Composition notebooks sometimes have ugly tables and schedule stuff printed on the inside of the cover. If you like you can take some pretty paper and mod podge it on the inside cover.
Then you will cut out two rectangles of fabric, 25inX13.5in. Pin them together, right sides facing, and sew all the way around, leaving a 3 inch opening. Turn it right side out and press. You should now have this:
Topstitch all the way around. Now fold the top and bottom down 1 inch, press and pin.
Next you sew on the button! Be careful not to sew through your newly created pocket. Then get your ribbon and wrap it around the button like so:
If you make one of these please contact me at alidanicolelee@gmail.com and I will tell you what to do next. Thank you so much my crafty friends! This will be a wonderful project!











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Oh my goodness, wonderful idea. I think this is such a great Idea. I helped a friend grieve through a stillborn baby by making mothers bracelets for the hospital. It was an awesome and rewardign experience for her. I think you will find this very rewarding and you will be so blessed for your efforts. Where do you want it sent. beckyscraftcloset@gmail.com
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Wow...your post gave me chills. Thank you for sharing and doing something so great! I was a military wife and am so grateful we are done and the fear is gone! My friends husband just deployed last week.
ReplyDeleteI love the picture of your husband and the baby. All man and pink ruffles smooshed together! Such a great picture I am sure she will cherish forever.
I would love to help...I'll email you
Scotti
This is a great idea and I'd love to help! I actually made two of these the other day, but didn't know what to do with them.
ReplyDeleteLet me know where to send them: maross76 at gmail dot com
I would LOVE to make a few of these to send in.
ReplyDeletehowever, I do not own a sewing machine at the moment. I do lots of other crafty things!! :) any ideas of ways for someone who can't sew to accomplish this?
your story deeply touched me as a military wife and I want to help anyway I can.
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What a wonderful idea. I am an Iraqi war veteran and a military wife. I would love to help and make some of these journals. I may work a bit slow since I have 4 small kiddos but will contact you as soon as they are done!
ReplyDeleteAhhh sweetie...I just sent you a note when I saw your blog... I was a widow, too many times to mention and I salut you for such a brave and creative way to deal with your loss...I am sooooooo sorry to hear of this, you are so young to have to deal with this...it never gets easy that I can tell you, but your heart does heal very slowly...but it does...blessings ...
ReplyDeleteOh ps...I will make one too.
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I hope it's ok to link this to my blog tomorrow...I don't have a ton of followers but would love to hopefully get you a few more book makers. If you would rather me not please email me and I'll remove it!
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I am going to blog about this and make as many books myself as I can. I was a military wife and would love to help fellow military wives. I will e-mail you.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much ladies! I have no problem with anyone blogging about this project. Thanks for your help!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for talking about this topic, i know how much it must hurt. my husband is in the navy as a corpsman and has deployed 2 times with in the first 3 years of our marrige and I thank god every day that he came home. I have lost a good handful of friends to this war and i know i could never even imagine going through losing my husband. you are such a strong woman for pushing forward. you can count me in for making a couple of these.
ReplyDeleteas a fellow military wife, I would love to do this, I will be emailing you soon.
ReplyDeleteI just posted this on my blog......I shoudl ask, you don't mind if those that don't sew use scrapbook paper to decoarte them do you?
ReplyDeleteThis is a wonderful idea. I have you bookmarked, and my daughter and I will each make one of these. I was an Army wife for nearly 15 years; I know how brave and hard-working you all are. My daughter in law is now supporting my son, who is also deployed...thank you for all you do.
ReplyDeleteThis is such a great idea :) thank you for sharing. Your story is truly touching
ReplyDeleteThat picture took my breath away. I remember it all like yesterday. You are amazing in so many ways. When do I come down and help?
ReplyDeleteI'd love to help! My husband is a LtCol in the Army and seems to be sent away much more often than he's home. We're on year 6 of his mobilization, time in Kuwait, Afghanistan and lots of US month/weeks long trips too.
ReplyDeleteIn fact, we are sitting in his little apartment near Chicago right now. We live 6 hours from here.
Anyway, I craft to pass the time that he's not home with us and I can make some journals no problem!
I wanted to add that the Dollar Store has really nice journals there too if you frequent that store. Can I add a nice pen to go with it? Maybe modify your pattern to put a pen slot on the bind? I'll link up also.
You are such an amazing woman. Just by looking through your blog I can see how strong and creative you are. Please email me to let me know where to send these.
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here is my blog also:
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I also put a link to your website on how to make these. So beware you are going to have many journals.
ReplyDeleteI love this idea! I am always looking for something I can do for others, and this will be a fun project. I am an avid journal writer, and sometimes its hard to find cute ones, so I'm glad I found this idea. After I make some for you, I can make myself one!
ReplyDeleteI love this idea. Send me an email and I'd love to help.
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What a wonderful idea. It really does help to write it out. Your family is darling and I love your blog.
ReplyDeleteI would love to help!
ReplyDeleteHi. I don't have access to the notebooks but I have a blank journal I could decorate. Would that be OK?
ReplyDeleteYes Alice, that would be fine!
ReplyDeleteYou are so sweet! I'm so sorry to hear about your loss! Thank you for the great sacrifice that you (and ultimately your husband) made so I can be comfortable in my home and country!!! This is a great idea! Thanks for linking up this idea at somedaycrafts.blogspot.com for Whatever Goes Wednesday
ReplyDeleteI am sorry to hear about your loss. I admire your desire to help others. Thank you for your and your husband's service to our country. I will make a few this weekend. When I am done, I will email you to get directions for the next step.
ReplyDeleteAre there any issues using a spiral bound notebook?
ReplyDeleteSeamom, you can use what ever notebook you like! I thought composition notebooks would be easiest, but as long as it's handmade and made with love I don't care what it's made out of!
ReplyDeletei was very touched by your story and your decision to share it with us all. I'm going to share this on my own blog and hopefully send you some journals soon!
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What a great idea!! I shared it on my blog too! Hopefully that is okay. My sister lost her son a year and half ago and I know that she keeps a small notebook in her purse, I was thinking that would be nice to make different size notebooks - if that is okay!!!
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I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE this! I just forwarded it to my YW President to see if she wants to do an activity like it. Even if she doesn't, I'm going to make a bunch!
ReplyDeleteJust found you through another blog and was very touched by your story, especially since my birthday is March 11. I will happily add to what looks like a growing pile of special journals. From the picture you shared, it looks like your husband was, indeed, a very special and loving man. That photo tells an amazing story. Many blessings, Leslie
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Great idea! I've blogged about it!
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I too found you through another blog. I love this idea. I'm going to see if any of my sewing students would like to do this project. I'll blog about it too.
ReplyDeleteI know many gold star families. My friends son, Alex KIA in Iraq 2004. Years have passed but feels like yesterday. I know for his family this would have been very helpful with the healing process. No words can be said but they can be written.. Prayers for all the loved ones left behind.
Daniel looks like he is filled with love for little one. Love like that lives forever.
A friend of mine Jocelyn directed me too this site.
ReplyDeleteI would love to help you.
My husband is retired Air force. and My son is Now in the army Ntional gaurd starting out his career and as a mom I journalled a lot as he went through basic and his AIT training.
And I know as we head towards deployment time one day I will be keeping sane By journalling and scrap booking.
My heart goes out to you and thank you for organizing such a great cause
I am a avid sewer and have my own sewing business I will be spreading the word and making some journals for you I will email you when I need mailing details.
This is a beautiful thing to do. I am so sorry for your loss. I might have to give this a try too. Thank you for sharing.
ReplyDeleteKristen @ http://alltheproofineed.blogspot.com
This is a wonderful idea. If you're still collecting these, I think my girl scouts would like to contribute. Could you let me know. hknisley at hotmail. Thanks!
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